Capable, successful people arrive empty — often with workloads they could manage, and roles that consumed the energy they lived from. Maya Mandala has met this for more than 30 years: work drains people when the person inside the role is forgotten.

Workplace stress is the exhaustion of playing roles: the achiever, the rescuer, the reliable one. The role becomes so strong, so real, that it captures a person's whole energy — until they can no longer feel themselves. The scale is hard to miss: many people now describe work as the main source of their exhaustion.