"I feel bad" and "I feel disappointed, a little resentful, and underneath that, hurt" describe very different levels of emotional awareness — and Maya has spent more than twenty years observing that the difference is where genuine change begins.

Emotional awareness is a trainable skill: the capacity to feel what is actually there, in the body, with enough precision to know what to do with it. A feeling located in sensation — as heat, tightness, or weight — and understood clearly, beyond a broad label, is a feeling that can be worked with.